I DON’T ENVY YOUNG LIVES AT ALL. 😥
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The latest viral pain is the murder of Biliyaminu by his wife. COULD THIS DEATH NOT HAVE BEEN AVOIDED?
But no, he had to become a martyr for the propagation of ‘stay put’ analysts.
When we advise unmarried people to check the tendencies of whom they say they love or whom they say they’d love to marry, our words sound like negative talk and they ignore. When we say ‘untamed Anger is death in waiting’, we sound alarmist. When we say ‘a spouse who does not align with your most sacred value system will become your very biggest cross’, we sound like inexperienced lovers or at worst, enemies of progress.
When we tell even married couples that your innermost happiness and peace supersedes the need to stay put in a marriage that is taking the life off you and draining the life out of you, we sound ungodly. When we suggest that in the event of any form of vulnerability and hate or any appearance of violence, STAY AWAY WHILE YOU UNDERTAKE MEASURES TO RESOLVE IT, we sound like we are from the pit of hell.
Many people got married to people they had no business marrying. It was more to please family and friends than to be mutually happy. Their happiness and joy was mortgaged for a piece of prize or acceptance or just for peace to reign.
WILL WE EVER BREAK THIS DYSFUNCTIONAL CYCLE AT ALL?
I fear for what our children will grow up knowing about marriage. It’s either of the following:
– Marriage is a war zone. Let me get my own tools to fight with.
– Marriage is a place of sacrifice. I will have no life and I must stay that way.
– Marriage is a place that I must never come out from IRRESPECTIVE of what happens to me, good and bad.
– Provided my parents, siblings and friends are happy I am married, I should sustain their happiness no matter how I feel about it. My own feelings don’t count.
– Since I know marriageable adults are scarce, whomever I find, it’s in my interest to just take him/her.
I have a request: don’t pass your dysfunction to your children. If you know what to do to demonstrate that life is not pain but life is enjoyable, DO IT.
Let’s create the happy future by creating a happy now.
This is why SOBCA is NOT selling her cartoon series titled ANGER MANAGEMENT FOR KIDS. We are desirous to keep producing this series for FREE and you can download episodes 1 & 2 for free on www.sobcaonline.com (download of videos are not available on our app but only via the browser). Get it today and share it widely please.
May Biliyaminu (and all others who die in marriages that never make it to social media) Rest In Peace. Amen. ☹️
m a k t u b!!!
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