Our Minds are Endangered.
If you are an observer of behaviours like I am, then you would agree with me that OUR HUMANITY HAS TRULY ERODED A LOT MORE THAN WE WERE WHEN WE WERE BORN ABOUT 4 DECADES AGO.
I met a lady who told me that she is not so enthusiastic about the subject of Emotional Intelligence and Neuro-Linguistic Programming because HOW COME THE MORE EMOTIONAL UNDERSTANDING IS SHARED THE MORE EVIL MEN GET?
A thought provoking question I must say. We are so lethal in our day. People dare not make mistakes and we unleash the hate that’s resident in our bellies. Persons who are already in the valley are further pushed into the pits by our venoms.
Take a tour of social media. Take a visit to the worship houses. Relate with siblings of the same family. MORE PEOPLE ARE SHARING PAIN EVERYWHERE (literally).
So I am not surprised anymore that I have received a surge of requests from persons whose family members have become very drawn to dangerous vices like friends they don’t need, substances they shouldn’t need and isolations they cannot handle.
WE PUSHED THEM THERE.
I believe that:
– Every person needs love. We may not like how they do things but ‘protective love restores.’
– Every person’s story is personal. You really do not know people so well to know their entire story. Some persons say ‘I know him very well’, ‘I know her so much’. There is no bigger fallacy than that.
– Face your own front. If you cannot bring succour and help, just keep shut. Some persons have been privileged to get confidential information about loved ones. In fact, loved ones called you to share their burdens but what have you done with it? You have gone AWOL and become PR with their stories; sampling opinions that further freshens the wounds. *Like seriously?* How do you think these people in pain feel when they read your posts and the comments that emanate from them? Where is our humanity?
I speak to myself and to all of us who will read this post: WHEN IT IS YOUR TURN TO BE HELPED, WHAT WOULD YOU PREFER? *That your answer… is that what you do?*
m a k t u b!!!